BDSM & Kink Consent Character Sheet

Have you ever wanted the power of telepathy, to know what others would like and what they want to avoid? For a few months with groups as small as 6, DnD party sized and as large as 35, our party house has been experimenting with using a want list at first and later a full character sheet for helping others read their mind. This is version 5 of that sheet both as a blank one and one that I used recently at an event.

Download your own free copy:  Kink, Sex, Charterer Sheet Blank
A few notes from play testing:

  1. Less words is better! 
  2. Icons or images would be awesome (we started with a palace for a description than brought a polaroid to events)
  3. Customize to the crowd and how well you know people

Please play test this for yourself and give us feedback in the comments. 

Why is this needed?

We are generally terrible as a society about commuting consent.  I will admit I have screwed it up more than once.  I grew up in a gay male culture where if you said no at a gay bar someone’ would by you a really strong drink. In the last 15 years since running house parties in Seattle, I have made a conscious effort to improve on these practices.  

Will this fix all the problems? NO

This is just one tool we can learn to use to create a culture where it is easier and more acceptable to share our wants, desires, and limits. This tool is not a substitute for getting to know people and creating trust.  This is the first step in opening up and commuting, not the last. 

Copyright – the character sheet is under CC0 – a FREE Public Domain dedication meaning remix reuse with or without credit.  To support more content and events PLEASE my Patreon

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